My kids

I know i said I would talk about brain injury but change of plans I want to talk about my children.

As I mentioned before I have four kids, three boys and my girl I was a secondary trained history teacher but when Salahaddin, my first child was born in2005 .I decided to stay home with him and all the my kids that followed, by

Praise Belongings to Allah , who gave me this beautiful chance to bring up my kids

So I begin with my husband he had a huge dilemma, should my kids see me or not. A friend advised him, and then he decided my two older kids should see me, my eldest son , who was w12 at the time He held my hand the whole time. he held it together very well and wept quietly. Allmost three years on Praise belongs to God he is s one my pillars in my life, as are all my kids But he is very gentle with me .My daughter came but could only manage five minutes of looking at me , who could blame her, I looked like frankistein , my head was like swollen balloon. owais and zayd who were 3 and 5 at the time . My husband waited a week till they my little boys came, by then my face was not so swollen, Owais was mesmerised by all the wires linked to me and the constant numbers on my monitor screen. A wonderful nurse named Ian spent thirty minutes explaining each wire and why I needed it. This really Reassred him I was in capable hands. A small deed can go so far. People may think his just doing his job but for many workers in the NHS it’s more then just a job. my husband will testify I was treated with such love and care and this kindness was extended to my family. in Islam we have a prophetic saying ‘ He who does not thank man he does not thank God ‘what can I say about Zayd. again he could not look at me for too long .Off course all my information is conveyed to me by my husband I was blissfully asleep. only God knows what heavenly presence surrounded me, as my face just displayed peace , serinity and funnily youthfulness, though I was 39 , I looked in my late teens One hilarious incident was one nurse thought my husband was my dad, which goes to show I had a heavenly presence by my bed I have no doubt.In Islam we have a strong belief in the unseen, my experience has reinforced this very much for me Enough for today but I know my accident will shape my kids for the better I have no doubt this accident will be the making of four amazing people, God Willing I sincerely hope I am not boring you guys